There is cleaning. You know what cleaning is. It involves applying some kind of textile or textile-like object (rag, mop, feathers) to a surface, possibly with the assistance of a fluid (water, water with soap in it, other chemicals). If you are _really_ literal minded, you may inform me (hopefully gently) that sometimes you clean with scrapers (nylon scrapers to get things out of dishes, knives to get things out of crevices, fingernails, etc.). Fair enough. You know what cleaning is. (ETA: I own a Roomba, a Eufy, a canister and an upright. Yes, Dear Reader, I do know what a vacuum is. And yes, a vacuum is used to clean. You do _indeed_ know what cleaning is. Congratulations!)
There is Putting Things Away, sometimes called Tidying Up or Straightening up or similar things, in which a variety of items are returned to their default positions. Chairs go back to where they circled the table or lined up next to a counter. Paper related items back into drawers or onto shelves. Dishes back in the cupboard. Dirty laundry to the laundry. Clean laundry to the dresser and closets. Coats and shoes to their hooks and shelves by the door. Etc.
And then there is Somewhat More Than Cleaning. And by this, I don’t mean Spring Cleaning, in which one finally moves the couch to vacuum under it and put it back, or moves the bookcase to get the bunnies in the corner, or getting the bunnies from under the bed. The Somewhat More Than Cleaning is when you decide you actually no longer want something in your space. And I don’t mean putting used tissue in the wastebasket, or scraping food off the dirty dishes or taking the empty beer cans and bottles out to the recycling. I don’t mean disposing of consumables. I mean, you decide that you are Done With That Chair. You never liked it. You are not going to have it reupholstered (or you already have and you still hate it). You are never going to read those books again. Those clothes haven’t fit since before you had your last child. Etc.
SMTC has gone by a number of names in my lifetime: home organizing, decluttering, “tidying” (in the MarieKondo sense, not in the tidying up sense above), and now, Swedish Death Cleaning. Each phase has gone through an era of Guru Does Talk Show Circuit and Writes More Than One Book, Everyone Is Doing It, Then No One Is Doing It Any More, they are doing the next phase (<— hyperbole alert).
It is not at all clear that there are significant differences in the activities of SMTC under its many labels. And Julie Morgenstern, the Millenial Minimalists, Marie Kondo and now Margareta Magnusson are all alive at the same time, all active. Their books and blogs and magazine articles are all present, to some degree, in the same time and space. But the activity level has clearly evolved. (I don’t know where to put Peter Walsh. I welcome suggestions).
Why?
Generally speaking, we evolve labels for something which has not itself changed in any significant way, because the old labels have acquired a burden of stigma, or because the new label is desirable in some important way. I could give examples. I’ll use one that I’m allowed to use. “Lady” became “woman”. A “lady” didn’t work, and therefore a “lady” could be blocked from having career aspirations or education required for a career. A woman worked: she could get the education and pursue her career vigorously.
A lot of the other examples that spring to my mind are painful to discuss and/or are not really In My Wheelhouse. But for an example, you could peruse the definitions and time frames for “idiot”, “moron”, “retarded”, “developmentally delayed”, “learning disability” and “intellectual disability”. Some of these are still tossed about as insults with distressingly few social consequences (in much the same way we toss around works like “dumb” or “lame”, without thinking of what we are saying when we use these as generically negative words — hey, I meant the we part. I am part of the problem. I’m trying to change.). Some have been aggressively retired from the language (cf. use of the R-word in the 2008 presidential campaign).
I am very, very carefully not talking about people of color. They have enough trouble without getting dragged into this essay.
SMTC does not _seem_ like the kind of thing which would need to evolve its label in order to escape its stigma or acquire the right to exist or do something important. But I’m betting it does, or this wouldn’t be happening. Here are some possible explanations:
We _really_ don’t like SMTC. So we sort of have to be “tricked” into engaging in it, and we have to be lied to to really do it well. “If you do this once, it’ll stay this way forever (with a minimal amount of maintenance which we will pretend is normal cleaning but isn’t really because you’d get discouraged and give up immediately)”.
Perhaps we believe that SMTC is something we never need to do. By renaming it, we can treat it as a new task needing a new assignment. People who successfully resisted “home organizing” might sign up for “decluttering”. People who declined to “declutter” might be sucked in by asking whether their things “Spark Joy”. People who mocked Marie Kondo might find motivation in their own mortality a la Swedish Death cleaning.
Perhaps the stigma is what we did with the things we removed from our lives (remember: the central activity of SMTC is Not Having Something In Our Space Any More) in the previous rounds. Perhaps this is an effort to distract sustainability and/or environmentally sensitive types from the fact that we are de-accessioning things.
Perhaps this is all sleight of hand to distract the hoarders we all wind up sharing space and stuff with from the fact that Something Isn’t Around Any More.
Perhaps this is a way of consoling ourselves with the Less that we now have, due to reduced circumstances.
Downsizing and Voluntary Simplicity movement fit in here somewhere, as do:
“More with Less”
Hoarding
How does environmental / sustainable fit in here?
Frugality
Make it do or do without
There is Putting Things Away, sometimes called Tidying Up or Straightening up or similar things, in which a variety of items are returned to their default positions. Chairs go back to where they circled the table or lined up next to a counter. Paper related items back into drawers or onto shelves. Dishes back in the cupboard. Dirty laundry to the laundry. Clean laundry to the dresser and closets. Coats and shoes to their hooks and shelves by the door. Etc.
And then there is Somewhat More Than Cleaning. And by this, I don’t mean Spring Cleaning, in which one finally moves the couch to vacuum under it and put it back, or moves the bookcase to get the bunnies in the corner, or getting the bunnies from under the bed. The Somewhat More Than Cleaning is when you decide you actually no longer want something in your space. And I don’t mean putting used tissue in the wastebasket, or scraping food off the dirty dishes or taking the empty beer cans and bottles out to the recycling. I don’t mean disposing of consumables. I mean, you decide that you are Done With That Chair. You never liked it. You are not going to have it reupholstered (or you already have and you still hate it). You are never going to read those books again. Those clothes haven’t fit since before you had your last child. Etc.
SMTC has gone by a number of names in my lifetime: home organizing, decluttering, “tidying” (in the MarieKondo sense, not in the tidying up sense above), and now, Swedish Death Cleaning. Each phase has gone through an era of Guru Does Talk Show Circuit and Writes More Than One Book, Everyone Is Doing It, Then No One Is Doing It Any More, they are doing the next phase (<— hyperbole alert).
It is not at all clear that there are significant differences in the activities of SMTC under its many labels. And Julie Morgenstern, the Millenial Minimalists, Marie Kondo and now Margareta Magnusson are all alive at the same time, all active. Their books and blogs and magazine articles are all present, to some degree, in the same time and space. But the activity level has clearly evolved. (I don’t know where to put Peter Walsh. I welcome suggestions).
Why?
Generally speaking, we evolve labels for something which has not itself changed in any significant way, because the old labels have acquired a burden of stigma, or because the new label is desirable in some important way. I could give examples. I’ll use one that I’m allowed to use. “Lady” became “woman”. A “lady” didn’t work, and therefore a “lady” could be blocked from having career aspirations or education required for a career. A woman worked: she could get the education and pursue her career vigorously.
A lot of the other examples that spring to my mind are painful to discuss and/or are not really In My Wheelhouse. But for an example, you could peruse the definitions and time frames for “idiot”, “moron”, “retarded”, “developmentally delayed”, “learning disability” and “intellectual disability”. Some of these are still tossed about as insults with distressingly few social consequences (in much the same way we toss around works like “dumb” or “lame”, without thinking of what we are saying when we use these as generically negative words — hey, I meant the we part. I am part of the problem. I’m trying to change.). Some have been aggressively retired from the language (cf. use of the R-word in the 2008 presidential campaign).
I am very, very carefully not talking about people of color. They have enough trouble without getting dragged into this essay.
SMTC does not _seem_ like the kind of thing which would need to evolve its label in order to escape its stigma or acquire the right to exist or do something important. But I’m betting it does, or this wouldn’t be happening. Here are some possible explanations:
We _really_ don’t like SMTC. So we sort of have to be “tricked” into engaging in it, and we have to be lied to to really do it well. “If you do this once, it’ll stay this way forever (with a minimal amount of maintenance which we will pretend is normal cleaning but isn’t really because you’d get discouraged and give up immediately)”.
Perhaps we believe that SMTC is something we never need to do. By renaming it, we can treat it as a new task needing a new assignment. People who successfully resisted “home organizing” might sign up for “decluttering”. People who declined to “declutter” might be sucked in by asking whether their things “Spark Joy”. People who mocked Marie Kondo might find motivation in their own mortality a la Swedish Death cleaning.
Perhaps the stigma is what we did with the things we removed from our lives (remember: the central activity of SMTC is Not Having Something In Our Space Any More) in the previous rounds. Perhaps this is an effort to distract sustainability and/or environmentally sensitive types from the fact that we are de-accessioning things.
Perhaps this is all sleight of hand to distract the hoarders we all wind up sharing space and stuff with from the fact that Something Isn’t Around Any More.
Perhaps this is a way of consoling ourselves with the Less that we now have, due to reduced circumstances.
Downsizing and Voluntary Simplicity movement fit in here somewhere, as do:
“More with Less”
Hoarding
How does environmental / sustainable fit in here?
Frugality
Make it do or do without