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Obviously, a day with some history, but aside from that, I went for a walk with M. I had a video meeting about the door for the shower in the future master bathroom. I took apart lego haunted mansion, and listed some stuff. Some stuff was picked up, and more will head out the door in the next few days.

In theory, I will have my first Dutch lesson in about five years tomorrow. Fingers crossed!

T. came over and picked up his TV and the stand for it. The stand is awesome and super stable. He wants YouTube TV so I signed up for that and did the share so he could access it.
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Apparently there was some news that just about everyone has something to say about, by which I mean the deeply ironic event in Utah. I will otherwise refrain. I tried to make some kind of sense of the Nepal thing, but it’s pretty opaque to me. Obviously, shutting down how people connect with the folks sending remittances is going to kick off random, and unknown additional folks will exploit extensive random, but making any sense out of that from outside is much harder than I’m really capable of participating in.

I had a walk with M., a phone call with J. I had dinner at Rail Trail Pizza with R.

I really enjoy quiet, boring days.

Oh, and A. and I went to see A. (therapy) which is always interesting. I have some thoughts now about communicating complicated things, but my daughter has just started talking to me and I can’t quite keep it straight enough to blog about right now.

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Apparently she read about pool skimmer boxes, small children and horrible intestinal damage and was worried about our future pool. I had no idea that was a thing, but I also don’t think we have comparable equipment. Yikes. The things she finds out to worry about.

Anyway.

We had an interesting discussion about beliefs and identity and my assertion that many people build identity around things they don’t properly understand, and so I tend to focus on the _I_ believe, the identity part, and ignore the details of the content of the belief. Therapist thinks that a lot of people simplify (perhaps not correctly) complex ideas into simpler beliefs, and those simple beliefs can result in them being drawn to people sharing those simple beliefs, even if the larger surrounding / more complicated “official” beliefs are wildly incompatible. This is a pretty good idea!

And it dawned on me that what I tend to think of when I think about Republican partisan messaging history is missing a key piece. I resent the micromessaging (telling small groups what they want to hear, even when incompatible with what they are telling other members of the coalition) and I find the “tell people how to feel about it” part … cringe. But this is a way to get form a complex message to a simple message that resonates.

There’s no obvious reason my team couldn’t take complicated stuff and tell people what the simple version is. People generally like my team’s policies better anyway. It’s just that we don’t explain how to simplify it, and when other people do it on their own (or are directed to by opponents) it doesn’t go so well for us. This is framing, but it’s a …. Different frame on framing. So to speak. I like it! I’m going to run with it, and see what happens.

Also! A. had some questions about people who refuse to acknowledge when they are wrong, and I said, well, understandable cornered behavior. But this turned into a hilarious bit about whether or not anyone exists who would straight up identify as a person who will never admit they are wrong, even / especially when they are. Obviously, we’ve run into this behavior, and some people really have a rep for it, but the idea that someone would self-identify this way is hilariously improbable. So hilariously improbable I’m thinking of introducing myself that way just to find out how people react.
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I got a decent amount of continuous sleep last night, which is really wonderful in so many ways.

I got out of the house (R. got A.’s lunch together and helped with breakfast) at 9 to get to Florence for an 11 am walk through of the various kitchens with the metal artist and with the kitchen designer. That was productive. We also had the MEPFP and OAC, and SC from HVAC was on site and is very ready to switch to a different vendor, and I am entirely in favor of. So we’ll get hot gas reheat throughout, which is wonderful.

There was an issue with one of the ducts in the main kitchen — it was not going to fit through a space it was intended to go through without some significant adjustment and as we were talking it through, SC was like, wait, why is it so big, this room isn’t that big, so it is almost certainly going to be downsized to something more reasonable AND so will whatever it is connected to. Woot!

I won’t be getting shelving at the end of the bar alley, because the beams are just going to complicate it a little too much to make it worth the effort. I’m back to thinking about a neon sign there.

I’m pretty tired, and will head off to bed soon and hopefully get another decent night’s sleep. A. and I had a long talk, and I think we’re making some headway on talking about some of her big, uncomfortable feelings, many of which are really typical of this age, and the rest of which are really typical of autism. Sometimes, ya just gotta say it out loud to let go of it.
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Recently, a friend heard some bit about “treasury companies” on Bloomberg? CNBC? Something else? I don’t recall. And he didn’t know what treasury companies meant in that context, but it sounded like he thought it was something crypto tracking treasuries. I gave a vague and pointless answer, and then belatedly realized, NO ACTUALLY you probably heard about public companies buying Bitcoin or whatever, and how the purchases result in a larger stock price than the amount those purchases increase Net Asset Value, which is weird, and kind of a perpetual money machine until it isn’t.

Anyway. There is also something called a SPAC, which is a different way for a private company to go public than the more normal ways such as an IPO or a direct listing.

In today’s Matt Levine column, there’s an extensive discussion of how SpaceX just bought some of EchoStar’s spectrum (presumably for StarLink), and didn’t pay exclusively in cash, but rather used some of SpaceX’s stock.

“SpaceX treasury company

One recurring theme around here is that ordinary investors want to buy SpaceX stock, but they mostly can’t. SpaceX is a private company; it is not allowed to sell stock broadly to the general public, and it mostly doesn’t want to.



it didn’t sell its spectrum to SpaceX for cash, or not just for cash. It sold the spectrum to SpaceX for $8.5 billion of cash and $8.5 billion of SpaceX stock, with the cash going largely to pay down debt.”

Anyway. The most hilarious outcome here is for EchoStar to keep selling spectrum to SpaceX and keep paying down debt and eventually EchoStar and SpaceX merge and SpaceX is public and anyone who owned EchoStar from the early days winds up swimming in it?”

Dish Network parent stock ownership being a good way to kinda own SpaceX stock was never on any of my expectations, so this is delightfully weird.

No I don’t own any stock in any of this stuff.
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Look, it’s a Monday in the first weeks of school, so I do recognize that this is always a little rocky. But this morning, I got up at 8:30, because I didn’t get to sleep until after 1:30 this morning. I woke A. up after I got through the laundry I forgot in the machine (weirdly did not smell, so I hung it up to dry and fingers crossed).

R. came down after that, and started making coffee, which is annoying, because the last thing I need when I’m this exhausted is someone underfoot. I saw a plate on the counter (I’d emptied the clean dishes from the dishwasher during my meltdown last night), asked, “Is this for you?” He said, “No,” so I started putting it in the dishwasher. At which point he said, “It’s for Ali’s pancake” and I completely lost it. I couldn’t start my tea, because he was using the kettle for coffee. He got up _after_ I’d already gotten up later than usual and after I’d already started waking A. up, and at no point in this whole process had he said anything about planning on taking care of the morning routine for A. I mean, obviously he meant to be helpful, and I did acknowledge that explicitly in my morning meltdown, along with, I get what you meant by saying, the plate was not for you, and also, do you understand how maddening that was. You had to have known that I wanted to know if I could put that in the dishwasher or if you were using it _which you were_. He didn’t realize he’d gotten up too late to start the whole process for A. Also, he couldn’t remember how I make the pancakes. Just all the things.

Anyway. I was very clear about the importance of Using Your Words, and if you are going to help out (thank you for helping out last night, which I did say out loud, Using My Words, because it was actually helpful that he got A. some real food to sop up some of that lake of chocolate milk she swallowed), then we should plan that the night before. Also, totally pointless, because I gave up on sleeping in in the morning and having R. get through the routine, because every single time it resulted in A. screaming and ranting and I had to get up anyway. Not Restful. And that isn’t years ago, either. That’s like, last school year. That’s how we settled into, fine, you can pick her up in afternoon routine, which is a genuine improvement over me having to do both sides of it while supposedly I’m doing the afternoon, but actually I wind up having to drive her in the morning, too.

They actually have a really good relationship. One of the reasons I’ve been pushing on the idea of me traveling alone more is because they definitely need more time to figure things out without me getting sucked in by screaming. (I want to be absolutely clear. All this is autism stuff. It’s genuinely screaming. People are genuinely distressed. This is not people being manipulative. This is people running off the end of their rope.)

R. drove her into school. She was apologetic about the previous evening. She was only about five minutes late to school, which is honestly somewhat amazing. I asked her to really work to get along with R., because he is trying to be helpful, they both made an effort. I walked with M., and ranted a bit about the whole thing, and we talked through an interesting story idea she had, which was fun.

A little side note on that. She was thinking of having one of the vampires of Shadow’s Brook consult / do work for the government on matters supernatural. Some of that would be supplying background, but some of it would involve actually dealing with threats / bad actors / wtf that involved other supes. This is obviously a common device in lots of series out there, and often it becomes a way of describing how even supernaturals can wind up suffering at the hands of malicious bureaucrats. I find that obnoxious, so I asked how she intended to deal with that issue. She didn’t have a plan — no one ever seems to — so I suggested maybe this work fell under some kind of treaty between the supes and the government, perhaps negotiated by the fae, as that would be the kind of thing they might do. She liked that idea, and then I asked about enforcement and since she’s brought up the idea of a geas to do enforcement to prevent supes with magic from using their magic after they’ve been convicted of serious enough magical crimes, I suggested perhaps any bureaucrat that is read into working with the vampire on this kind of consulting situation might have to swear and oath that connects to that kind of enforcement. It was a fun thing to think through; I’ll probably eventually use the idea myself elsewhere.

After we had a walk and visit, I had a brief conversation with D. from the builder, which was enjoyable. I then went and laid down in a dark room for about an hour, which was very helpful.

T. came over. He picked up the bag of spices I found in the pantry with his name on it. He’d forgotten them. He wanted to see the progress on the guest bedroom. Also, he wants a TV stand and his TV from his bedroom. He had an idea for one, and I thought it looked a little suss, so I did some research on other options, came up with a plausible one, ordered it. I had made fried chicken and salsa (sort of) without garlic or onion in it, so I put a piece of chicken and some salsa in a bowl for R., walked it out to where he was playing bridge on the porch and got his signoff on the plan. It should arrive on Thursday, and R. can assemble it, try the TV on it, and if all is well, he can drive it over to the dorm Friday or over the weekend and install it with T.

Things are definitely better now (I mean, fried chicken, amirite?), altho I am not caught up on sleep. I’m probably going to go continue dis-assembling lego next. Altho when I went to put the bucket away (I got it out of the tub to give to A. in case the bad judgment wrt chocolate milk led to vom) where it belonged, there was no space, so this morning I pulled out the foot cleaning appliance and set it next to the tub because it has some staining. If it can clean up well enough, I might list it on FB marketplace, so that might distract me from lego dis-assembly.
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It started innocently enough and progressed well. Everyone was up before noon. Playdate was canceled, but that happens fairly often and is roughly evenly split so I don’t worry about it. We listened to some podcasts, which was fun. I worked on dis-assembling a lego. Someone came and picked up an Easter frame. No walk, because thunderstorms, but M. came for a visit. I zoomed with I. I did family zoom.

All meals happened at roughly the right intervals. I gave A. lots of heads up warnings to get a shower, and that I was going to bed at midnight. All seemed well, right up until midnight, when A. said she felt really unwell because she’d had 3 glasses of chocolate milk in an effort to feel full, and now felt really uncomfortable. If she had told me she’d needed a snack, I would have gotten her a banana and a blondie, because she had no banana at breakfast (we were out) and we had them now (R. went to the grocery store, which is why we had the chocolate milk). It was lactaid milk, so there’s that, but also, that stuff is whole milk. This was just nuts. I weighed the carton, and it weighed 2 pounds 5 ounces, so between when R. went grocery shopping and when I weighed it (an under 8 hour time period, IIRC), she got through a quart of chocolate milk.

Gah.

I gave her a lactaid and threw a temper tantrum, nothing I do around here ever gets me 8 hours in a row uninterrupted, which means, by definition, I never get a full night’s sleep. I get that that’s a given when you have little kids, but I now have a will-turn-17-in-weeks and a 20 year old. What the actual fuck.

I did manage to plow through a large chunk of furniture planning for the new house, so there’s that.
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I had not updated my plan at Verizon for … a long time. I mean, other than to figure out how to return the cable box that T. decided he no longer wanted which was probably a year ago now.

I’ve had some discussions with various folks in the family about whether we could get rid of the “land line” (it’s not, it’s verizon voip) and whether we could get rid of our TV plan. Ultimately, everyone was basically unopposed. So I tried to figure it out on the verizon website, failed, and went to chat. I got rid of the phone and the TV, and have gone from 75 to 500 on the internet, and the whole thing is going to cost at least $100 less. Tech shows up in a couple weeks, and we’ll have to figure out returning the Tivo cable cards, but that’s about the extent of it.

I basically don’t watch TV (I do watch some stuff on Disney Plus occasionally). Years ago, I was still watching some NCIS shows, and TRMS and then Alex Wagner, but of course that’s all different as of this year and I had stopped watching before this year anyway. But R. and A. both wanted to know how they would watch This Old House and America’s Test Kitchen. Worst case scenario, the money I saved on Verizon goes to YouTube TV, and that’s fine. But I did want to do better than that if I could.

Step one: PBS website. You can definitely watch some This Old House there.

Step two: But if you go to the This Old House app, you can watch all of it. And cast it to your TV if your device supports that. Woot! Problem Solved!

And now: ATK, the tougher nut. Amazon Prime has some seasons. Philo may or may not have some seasons for free; I couldn’t get it to work. PBS has some of at least one season. So it seems clear that ATK vibe could be satisfied, somehow. Worst case scenario, a year of access to all of it via the ATK website is about $50. Which is less than YTTV for one month. I’m scoring this a win as well.

I’m trying to decide if I want to tackle the news subscriptions today or not. Probably I will go play my game for a while instead.

A little backstory on this project. I’ve been doing living room planning for the new house. I got to wondering just what exactly we would need in terms of equipment for the TV. I picked out the TV, with a focus on good sound quality, knowing that apps for all the streaming would be built in. But then: DVD? Playstation? XBox? I have no idea! But we don’t have cable at the new house, just internet, so the Tivo is not going there with us. And then I got to wondering why I hadn’t done that here at this house. And so here we are.

On the list of very many things we don’t do around here, xbox and playstation are extremely high, so those may be next on the decluttering list. But first! Game! (Sliding Seas is still fun, altho slower now that I’m past level 200.)
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R. and I went to Circle Furniture to retry some chairs we tried before to make sure I had remembered and picked the correct ones, but mostly to focus on swivel comfy chairs that probably recline. So many options! Later I spent an unholy amount of time on the Himolla website trying to figure out what the US side named options were called originally and to try to figure out what other Himolla chairs might be available in the US.

I picked A. up from school. She was ready to go promptly! Miracles! And we got to therapy only a couple minutes late and she talked in therapy! Awesome!

I did FF later and it was very enjoyable.

Finally, I spent a bunch of time — this was straight up a waste — looking at Human Touch Perfect Chairs. I ultimately decided that Himolla Aura / Cumulex is the closest I’m interested in getting to a zero gravity chair at this point in time. American Leather has an interesting entry in this space, but it is powered, and I’m trying to avoid powered.

I’m really close to a complete list of what we need to order (down to finishes and so forth) for the living room and dining room. Not quite there, but really close. If I can get beds figured out completely, that’s the bare bones list for move in and throw a party, and hopefully having that nailed down will let me go about the rest of the project in a more leisurely manner (this particular sub project is Furniture for the new house, what, when, how, etc.).
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I don’t even know what happened. Oh well!

My hairdresser is back from maternity leave, so my hair is purple and other colors again. Woot! I went to the bank (finally!) for cash for the tip, so I have cash to give to my walking partner for her birthday tomorrow.

I walked with M.

I finally sat down and worked out the dining room layout, talked it out with R., and figured out all of the components. I think. We’re still not sure about the rug, and I have to measure where the registers extend to. In walking through the tabletop ordering process, I noticed some questions that I have started handing off to R. (do you like rubio monocoat type stuff).

The mattress arrived for the attic bedroom. It is extremely comfy. R. set it up with the bedding, including the Pottery Barn husband / pillows by Inventive Sleep or whatever, and the colors are really great. The catalonia modern forms sconce arrived, but we have not taken it out of the box yet. R. was going to ask the electrician to install it tomorrow, after telling me, and after I told the project manager that R. was going to install it post-inspection. I was like, hey, we sat there and walked through a contract where we agreed we were never going to ask the workers to do anything; we were only going to go through the project manager. D’oh.

And we finally, finally! got through what was the hangup with me planning on getting a storage unit for furniture delivery pre-certificate of occupancy. R. thought I wasn’t going to be there to take delivery. I’m like, of course I’ll be there to take delivery. Come on. Altho now that I think about it, I may have him go receive some of those things. We’ll see. Maybe I’ll get lucky and find a way to route all the purchases through people who will local-store it for us until it can go into the finished house. Circle will do that for sure.
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We went out to Woods Hill Table for dinner, and they have what Less Than Greater Than would term a “Baller Cocktail”: a $29 Vieux Carre made with some very fancy vermouth and armagnac. They smoke it, put it in a stoppered potion bottle, and put the bottle in a wood box with a metal clasp to deliver to the table. 10/10 would recommend. Theater is excellent, and the drink itself was worthy.

I had the duck leg, and I thought I was getting some kind of panzanella with summer veg, but it was mostly watermelon. Very yummy, and very savory, so no complaints. We had the coconut sorbet, and something called “Apple Pommeau”, which is apple apple water as near as I can tell, but some kind of apple alcohol made in the style of a dessert wine. It was yummy, and I think it’s from Ithaca, NY.

I walked with M. I also walked with R.

We had a weird and unsatisfying, and distressing for R., further discussion about why he’s so opposed to me getting a storage unit for managing the complex timing problem of ordering furniture for the new house (I don’t want it too early and I don’t want to wait forever for it either, and we don’t really know when we’ll get a certificate of occupancy, and the construction manager doesn’t want any furniture delivered pre-certificate).

I had a delightful conversation with J.
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I drove out to the new house, and it’s very exciting because wallboard is happening! The granite cap on the bricks looks amazing. And the enormous slider to the pool room now slides easily. Woot!f

Some bad news on HVAC; Enertech is definitely not going to have the units with hot gas reheat available by the end of the year. Or who knows when they might. So we talked that through, and subject to space for the ducting, we’ll probably have a separate dehumidification system for the basement (other than the pool room, which has a pool pack, whatever that is).

R. drove A. to and from school, since I was out at the construction site. I was very tired by the time I got home.

T. has moved out to the dorm. Very exciting! And also, now very quiet in the house. Also, suddenly space in a variety of locations that had been crowded.

Labor Day

Sep. 1st, 2025 11:00 pm
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I walked with M.

T. moves into the dorms tomorrow, so today is Pack It All Into the Car day. Woot! Since he did this last year, he basically didn’t need much help this year. He’s very adult. It’s quite nice.

I’ve been spending a ridiculous amount of time staring at various closet organizers. There is a lot of stuff out there. I mean, it is astonishing.
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R. has been quite adamant about wanting to put a wired light into the closet in the new attic room. I was like, but battery lights are so awesome now. Nope.

So then I said, hey, let’s do the modern forms catalonia, since I’ve put that fucker in several key places at the new house because previous choices failed and I have some real concerns about that light. I kinda want to get my hands on it and make sure I really like it. He’s like, no, has to be a wall sconce.

But he’s drunk and went to bed early, so I dug around on lighting websites As One Does (or at least, as I have spent entirely too much time doing), and learned that yes, you can indeed install that one on a wall. So I figured out how to order one, and paid attention and used the 10% off coupon (on top of the 20% discount), which brought it down to a moderately more plausible price. We will now have closet lighting in that room that is way nicer than most other rooms in the house. Pretty much like the entire room, in other words.

I’m trying to decide if I’m going to leave that one when we sell the house, or bring it with us, and I think the answer will depend entirely on how I feel about it once I’ve seen it in person for a while. I did get it in the brass, rather than the nickel, even tho nickel would probably work better in that room, so it’s pretty clear which way I’m leaning.
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No, not shipping containers. Sorry! I’m not rabbit holing on logistics; I’m engaged in a massive, all-encompassing decluttering spree, with a side helping of refining my travel organization. The former will be going on for one to two years; the latter is the result of extensive summer travel.

Universal segue here.

FB ads have always been kind of amazing. I know a lot of people have a lot of concerns about tracking and surveillance and privacy, but FB is basically me, only automated: eavesdropping on everyone’s conversations passively with zero intent, and occasionally injecting Helpful Advice (TM). I know people have concerns about FB, and believe me, I know that people have some real issues with me, but I can see the parallels and I love them. Because I’ve been spending a Truly Unholy amount of time on Lundia’s website trying to figure out how to set up a closet / 15 closets, it was inevitable that FB would start showing me closet related stuff, even tho I have many reasons to believe Lundia has zero tracking on its website. I mean, I was doing lots of research in other closet and closet adjacent systems to try to figure out how they did things so that I could reproduce them in a system whose components aligned with my values (no engineered wood, no particle board, no fibreboard etc.). Today, FB served up Modern Shelving. I don’t think I’m going to use Modern Shelving’s systems, because they are quite shallow as closets go, but there are a few closets that I might use them in, and I’ll also go look around for related systems. Hopefully, by exploring the Modern Shelving site, FB will go, oh, hey, she likes that kind of shit so let’s drown her in it. Bring it on, FB, bring it on.

Over on the travel organization side, I’ve been increasingly unhappy with my long-standing organizer bags for chargers and for the bag that contains everything else small that doesn’t go into the clear bag. I have a plastic bin (not one of the huge ones) with small purses and bags in it, and I keep looking through it hoping that something in there will work (which is great for decluttering, because if I decide over and over not to use something, it’s generally safe to post it on FBM and get rid of it). I have a couple small Tom Bihn bags in there that I kept concluding were too small. So when I was wasting time on reddit trying to figure out how the one baggers solve this problem, I realized, actually, are they really too small?

Answer: no, not actually. I’ll be working on that transfer later today.

Yesterday was really relaxing. I played Sliding Seas. Emptying the big bookcase and moving it to the garage was not per se relaxing, but getting it out the door sure was. (It’s completely gone now.) I also pulled out the Sunflowers lego kit and started putting it together. I got 2/3rds of the way through the thing, so it’s all just excruciatingly fiddly bits now. I’ll finish it today and we’ll either hang it in the dining room to cover up some patched wall so it doesn’t have to be touched up, or we’ll put it in the new bedroom. Maybe dining room for now, and new bedroom when it’s done.
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I still woke A. up in stages starting at a little before 11. I walked with M. I further encouraged A. to get up around midnight. I finally got the 7’ x 3’ bookcase in the dining room (it was moved from the upstairs hall during the pandemic when the treadmill moved from my office to the hall, and so two bookcases needed a new home) about half empty, which seemed like Empty Enough to replace it with the smaller, nicer bookcase (also from the upstairs hall, removed and put in the garage much more recently so wallboard could navigate the upstairs hall to the attic room renovation). I had to empty the rest of the case to the dining room table, then we moved the one from the garage to the kitchen, and then finally the one from the dining room to the garage, where I listed it on FB Marketplace. The B’s definitely don’t want a 7’ bookcase, so this seemed like a way to finally get another bookcase completely out of the house. It has been a real struggle negotiating getting rid of bookcases, which is weird, because only the kids read paper books anymore, and then only very occasionally.

I have been noticing a lot of free bookcases — nice ones, too! — listed on FB marketplace. It used to be difficult to find used bookcases at reasonable prices. Apparently not any more. It’s another sign of the transition from p-reading to e-reading.

After listing the big case (we dusted and vacuumed, obviously), I put the shelves into the smaller case and put all the stuff that was in the big case into the small case. Woot! It all fit!!! Most of it is lego kits I haven’t done yet. I doubt this will motivate me to actually put lego together, because right now I’m in a feverish speedrun to take apart and give away as much of the existing-on-display lego as I can convince myself to get rid of.

ETA:

I’m assembling the Lego Sunflowers! Woot! And someone has already come down to pick up the bookcase. Soooooo awesome. Also, R. made pulled pork, so I had a lovely lunch, and he’s now working on installing the curtain rods in the new attic room. Very Good Day!
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I took A. to school.

I walked with M.

I had a delightful phone chat with K.

I had a delightful phone chat with JC.

I totally failed to notice or failed to receive for several hours (thinking it was the latter, actually, altho I failed to screenshot the out-of-order timestamps on the messages for proof) a message from JB at the builder. Apparently, the propane tank for the backup generator needs to be larger. A lot larger. Because when you draw propane out of the tank, it chills things, and if you draw very quickly out of too small of a tank, you can make stuff too cold to function. R. realized it once it was pointed out; this was all new to me, altho I suspect yet another real world application of pv = nrt.

Anyway. There was something else that came up on the call, but that required no immediate decision making. Basically, it’s still a slog to get equipment with the new refrigerant.

D. from the builder called to say the PCO would be on Tuesday or whatever, which, fine.

And two different people came to pick up things in the middle of all of that.

I then went out to dinner with T. at NYAJ, which was fun, but by the end of it I was Done. I took a nap for about an hour, and then remembered I hadn’t sent FF invites, so I did that and shortly thereafter participated in FF. Very enjoyable!

Wow that was a lot of social in one day tho.
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I’m starting to get caught up. A little!

I listed a few holiday items, and I collected the scattered cards that are not in albums and recycled a few. I really need to come up with some kind of strategy to reduce the volume of cards I’m hanging onto. Someday. Things continue to slowly move along via FB marketplace. I took apart the Lego Endor speeder diorama and moved that along.

I made a cake! We’ve missed T.’s birthday two years in a row due to travel that he did not come along for. But we had cake tonight, which was nice. I used up the last of the cocoa butter in the cake. I really need to get different powdered sugar. I accidentally bought some that has tapioca starch in it, and man, I really can tell I’m allergic to that stuff.

The curtains for the new room arrived, and they are a great match for the carpet, which is wonderful. The sheets are not quite the right color, but I don’t think it matters very much; they’ll be covered up by the bedspread most of the time anyway.

I downloaded Sliding Seas and have played about 60 levels of it. Great match 3 game with interesting variations. It’s been a long time since I started a new game, so this is nice.

I’ve sent messages out about social stuff to a variety of people and am awaiting their responses if any.
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I’m going to make an effort. Or make an effort to make an effort.

Today was A.’s first day of school. She really struggled to get up, despite falling asleep early last night, which I didn’t realize until I went to tell her to go to bed and she woke up and was disoriented. She put on night time clothes and went back to bed, without bothering to do things like plug in her laptop. Oh well!

I did get her out the door and to school right at 10:30, so she was probably about 10 minutes late getting to class based on her history. Hopefully it wasn’t more.

ETA:

I walked with M.

I had a phone call with J.

I finally got the trip blogging done. Woot! I did some more laundry. I cleaned out the lint compartment as well. I brought my pneumatic stool down to the basement to double check how it would fit under the chemistry table / kitchen table (I had gone off measurements before), and it’s great, altho the legs for the wheels are a little wide. There are other options online that would fit better, but it’s nice to have a proof of concept for now.

Some of the bedding for the guest bedroom has arrived and I think the curtain rod is in the garage; I should go check on that. I ran the sheets through the laundry. The bedspread is next.
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Today was A.’s orientation, starting at 8:30 and going to 1:30. I warned them that arriving at the beginning was unlikely because she was still jetlagged. We did get her there at 10:30. She ate pizza they provided for lunch, so her lunch came back home. I went home in between dropping her off and picking her up, and did the OAC / MEPFP in the car (mostly in the parking lot). She ate her lunch minus the sandwich for dinner, along with the wings and steaks that R. cooked, so in a weird miracle we all kind of ate dinner at roughly the same time and mostly the same stuff.

Meeting went well. I forgot to send the blondies I’d made. Ooops. I did remember to send the check.

R. stopped at Pearl City Antiques and picked up a Cushman’s rock maple lamp table for the guest bedroom (now and future) and also a chemistry table (to be repurposed as not quite a kitchen island in the future house). He needs to figure out how to get the chem resistant surface to stay put. We have a long list of ideas for how to do that or to replace it with something that doesn’t curl up as aggressively. My pneumatic stool fits under it, which is nice; I will be able to sit and work if I want to. Yay! Better than a “real” island or even the cart I had planned.

I had a delightful phone call with A.

Book group

Aug. 25th, 2025 11:00 pm
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I finished read Now I Am Known and we had book group and chose Thursday Night Murders for next month.

It was a nice conversation, altho people had mostly forgotten or hadn’t read the book. M. didn’t attend because her granddaughters had visited and the ensuing chaos meant she didn’t get to read it and was thoroughly social-ed out.

ETA:

Peter Mutabazi’s Now I Am Known is extremely readable, which is impressive given how difficult some of the material in it is. He tells the story of growing up in a small village in Uganda on the border with Rwanda. His abusive father frightens him enough that Peter literally does the Goes Out for Cigarettes and Never Comes Back move. His dad sends him for a few cigarettes in the rain in the middle of the night, and Peter takes money he earned selling peanuts (IIRC) to people at the bus station to buy a ticket to Kampala. Once arrived in Kampala (he’s 10), he has no idea what to do, so he hangs out with other kids at the bus station, cleaning buses, lifting plaintains and similar from vendors and bus passengers, and offering to help carry things in exchange for food and similar. Once he’s been there for a few years, he develops a connection with someone who ultimately offers to send him to boarding school. While he struggles to accept the offer of help, and then to adapt to the extremely different environment and different conditions, he does, and this becomes the first of many massive changes in his life. From the boarding school, he goes to Makerere college in Kampala, where he develops connections with Uganda’s educated class, and works for relief organizations as a translator and in other capacities, including going into Rwanda after the genocide to get aid to the childrens’ camps.

The connections he makes helping visiting missionaries and similar turn into an offer to attend Oak Hill College in England for a Crisis Management degree, then to California to attend another college, and finally Masters’ University. A classmate invites him to speak at a church that is fundraising to sponsor children in Africa, and Mutabazi is far more successful at this than anyone has been before and this leads to job with extensive travel doing on a larger scale what he had been doing while still in Uganda.

But it’s clear that Mutabazi is not necessarily articulating in the memoir that he’s got an unmet need, a strong desire to be a father, and to do so without marrying a woman. Once he comes to understand the foster system, and the unmet needs of children there even in wealthy USA, and perhaps most importantly that this is a path where a man from Uganda who is single could still adopt, he fully commits — changing his home and his career so that he can foster children and ultimately adopt a few.

While a lot of this material is very grim, Mutabazi’s forthright tone, humility and the way he focuses his faith relentlessly on finding ways to help others thrive, makes this a highly readable and inspiring book. A.S. recommended it to book group, along with the second book by him (Love Does Not Conquer All), and I don’t regret reading it at all, which is a surprising thing for me to say about something so explicitly Christian coming out of Uganda. The publisher is a Evangelical publishing house, so if directing your money to that kind of organization bothers you, consider getting it from the library.

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