Jan. 25th, 2009

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Subtitled: A Social History of Infant Feeding 1890-1950

Published in 1987, Apple was a student of Judith Walzer Leavitt (author of _Brought to Bed_, which I was about to say I _hadn't_ read, but I then got to thinking, you know, I think I have; and indeed, I have). Her thesis in this work reflects Walzer Leavitt's thinking: sure, the last century or so of the way pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding have been managed culturally looks like one long drawn out rape of women and children by "scientific" medicine represented overwhelmingly by men (but one cannot discount the influence of women, as nurses and occasionally as doctors and researchers). But mothers who chose to have male doctors attend their births, and then go to hospitals so as to have access to pain relief, made a lot of conscious choices and engaged in activism to have those choices. It's unfortunate that those choices then became kinda mandatory, but don't just blame the men. Apple is basically more of the same, only this time it's about artificial feeding.

When I read _Brought to Bed_ (it's coming back slowly), I had mixed feelings: I both respected and resented the thesis. Reading _Mothers & Medicine_, it's a whole lot clearer to me _why_ I resent the thesis. Walzer Leavitt and Apple are basically trying to find some kind of empowerment in a really bad chunk of history. There's not much there to find, and they are fully prepared to emphasize murky moments if it looks like the support for their thesis (theses) isn't there.

But the reality is pretty straightforward. In much the same way that hospitals spread unusual infections (Ebola, MRSA) because they cannot be bothered to notice that their insistence upon rational routine is actually causing more problems than it is solving, hospitals spread bad management of childbirth (episiotomies, induction of labor) and artificial feeding (by scheduling feedings at long intervals, encouraging new mothers to sleep through the night, keeping women and babies in the hospital for a week or more after an uncomplicated birth, doing crazy shit like putting acid cleaners on nipples and making women wear a mask when breastfeeding).

I'm prepared to read a detailed analysis of _how_ the hospital spread the problem, whether it's a hemorrhagic virus or formula. I am _not_ interested in hearing someone try to convince me that the victims of the problem bear any particular responsibility for it. Even if those victims came to the hospital asking for the treatment that hurt them. The problem is the enforced regimen -- NOT the details of the regimen. In much the same way that the problem with organized religion is the organization part, not the religion part.

It's a lot more worth while to spend your time reading Golden's book on wet nurses, or Gathorne-Hardy's history of the nanny, or _Milk, Money and Madness_ or any of a number of other excellent books that dissect changes in child rearing with a particular view to infant feeding practices over the last century or so. This is assuming, of course, that you find any pleasure in reading unbelievably academic books in this topic area, which is probably assuming a lot.
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No, not actually having the kids. Well, okay, obviously they are relevant. But I write here about the amorphous mass of articles/web pages/whatever over on my website.

I was updating Sources to reflect the Apple book on infant feeding. As I surfed through the notes on other books I've read on the topic of breastfeeding (which is where I put the book, which may or may not make sense), a couple of things occurred to me. First, I really need to write some stuff about what it's like to have two kids in the house, if only to mention _this_ is why there are so few books written about what it's like to have two kids in the house. Not a whole hell of a lot else happens, really. Second, I think pretty much everyone would agree at this point that I've read way too fucking many books on pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding. Third, I think I have _not_ read enough books about generating entertainment and distractions for a three year old. Particularly one who is not very verbal and whose joint attention is too limited to play much in the way of games with.

Finally, I wanted to write that my perspective on staying home has shifted, and I'm much more okay with being home all the time than I was before. But then I realized that I actually liked being home, and I got really mad at people who kept trying to get me to leave the apartment back in Seattle and who were worried about depression etc. when I was a whole lot more worried about carefully managing my limited energy and staying put was generally a better decision than wandering around with an infant who hated going anywhere in the car therefore had to be transported on foot. My feet.

I think the real difference is that back then, I was trying to carve out legitimate space for me to stay home and enjoy it. _Now_ I've actually taken to snarking about other people never being at home. I've got a whole long list of downsides to never being at home, starting with the impact on lonely pets and working my way up from there. I've tried to write about this in the past, and have failed completely and utterly. I don't think I'm any more up to the task now. Maybe someday.
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I. bought T. a book called _Baby Faces_, which is pretty much what it sounds like. It has taken some major damage (and actually, this may be a replacement for the one I. gave us), but A. looooovvvves looking at it.

She's also reaching for the Whooozit and the Lamaze toy like the Whooozit (but it's smaller and has a bigger mirror).

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